By: Jamie Oleka

As the holiday season approaches, many people find themselves overwhelmed by the financial strain that accompanies the celebrations. Gift-giving, festive gatherings, and travel expenses can add up quickly, often leading to stress, debt, and a scramble for last-minute solutions. However, by planning and budgeting for holiday expenses as early as October, you can avoid these common pitfalls. Taking a proactive approach allows you to enjoy the festivities without the financial strain in January. Here are some smart strategies to help you get ahead of your holiday spending.

The first step in preparing for holiday expenses is creating a detailed spending plan. This involves outlining all anticipated costs, such as gifts, decorations, food, travel, and any other seasonal activities. Be specific and realistic—consider the price of everything from wrapping paper to party favors.

You can break your spending plan into categories like:

  • Gifts: For family, friends, and colleagues. Don’t forget any charitable contributions you want to make.
  • Decorations: If you’re updating your holiday decor, factor this into your budget.
  • Food & Entertainment: Whether hosting a dinner party or attending a potluck, food and drinks will be a significant expense.
  • Travel: If you’re traveling to visit family or friends, include transportation, accommodations, and any related costs.

Once you have a total estimate, divide it by the number of weeks left until December. This way, you’ll have a clear weekly savings goal to ensure you’re on track without dipping into credit cards or emergency funds.

After calculating the total amount you expect to spend, it’s essential to set a budget that aligns with your financial situation. Be honest about what you can afford and avoid the temptation to overspend. It’s easy to feel pressure to buy extravagant gifts or host elaborate events, but financial stress is not worth the short-term gratification.

Take advantage of October’s early planning period to track your spending habits and see where you might need to cut back. Are there unnecessary subscriptions or dining expenses that can be reduced to build your holiday savings fund? Creating a separate savings account specifically for holiday expenses can help you manage and monitor your spending more effectively.

Start by listing all the people you plan to buy for, and set a spending limit for each person. Be realistic about what you can afford to spend per recipient.

To reduce costs, consider homemade or thoughtful, low-cost gifts that still convey meaning. Handwritten cards, baked goods, or framed photos can make a big impact without breaking the bank. 

Additionally, consider organizing gift exchanges within groups, such as family or coworkers. This way, everyone only buys one gift, reducing the total number of purchases you need to make.

Starting your holiday shopping early gives you the advantage of watching for deals and sales. Retailers often offer significant discounts in October and November, especially around Black Friday and Cyber Monday. Make a habit of checking for coupon codes, cashback offers, and loyalty rewards to stretch your budget further.

Shopping early also helps you avoid the last-minute rush when you’re more likely to overspend out of desperation or limited choices. Sign up for newsletters from your favorite stores and follow them on social media for early access to discounts and promotions.

Keeping an eye on your holiday expenses is crucial to staying within your budget. As you start shopping, track your spending closely. This will prevent you from accidentally going over budget and allow you to make necessary adjustments. You can use tools such as a spreadsheet or a budget app to help you track your spending

It can be tempting to charge holiday expenses to your credit card and worry about paying it off later, but this often leads to debt accumulation. The interest on credit card debt can quickly turn a manageable holiday expense into a long-term financial burden. If you can, stick to using cash, debit, or a designated holiday savings fund.

If using a credit card is necessary, choose one with rewards or cashback offers. However, ensure that you’re able to pay off the balance in full before interest accrues.

Preparing for holiday expenses in October can save you from financial stress and debt in December. By setting a realistic budget, shopping early, tracking your spending, and avoiding credit card debt, you can enjoy the holiday season without the burden of financial strain. Start planning now, and you’ll be ready to celebrate the season with peace of mind and a well-balanced budget.


Jamie Oleka, a wife, girl mom, and a passionate advocate for debt free quality education, has extensive experience in K-12 and nonprofit management having most recently served as a Managing Director at Teach For America. Jamie holds a Masters of Education in Instructional Accommodations from Francis Marion University, Masters of Arts in Teaching, and Ed.S. in K-12 Administration from the University of Louisville.