By Shane Svorec
Embarking on a cross-country journey can be thrilling, especially for women bold enough to venture out into the great unknown with their children. The thought of traveling in an RV might seem daunting initially, but from personal experience, I assure you it’s doable. This journey is not just about exploring the country; it’s about embracing a sense of freedom and adventure that will empower you and your children with a newfound confidence and capability. The challenges you overcome will only add to the feeling of accomplishment.
With the recent Fourth of July celebrations still fresh in our minds, summer is the perfect time to embark on a journey of exploration across our diverse and beautiful country. The United States is home to fifty unique states, each offering its distinct charm and beauty. From the majestic mountains to the serene beaches, from bustling cities to quaint towns, the US is a treasure trove waiting to be discovered. The sheer beauty and diversity of the US, with its stunning landscapes and rich history, will leave you in awe, and the best part is you don’t need a passport to experience it all.
There are National Parks, breathtaking Memorials, and museums that can’t be missed. Incredible views, spectacular experiences, and unusual roadside attractions are plentiful. Traveling cross-country allows you to see it all, and the best part is you can do it at your own pace. If you want to hit the road, let me help you find the courage to journey beyond your comfort zone and enjoy the freedom of setting your schedule.
Based on my own experiences traveling solo with my children in an RV, I’ve compiled some pointers you may find helpful:
1. Rent an RV.
To find the perfect recreational vehicle for you and your family, I suggest visiting an RV rental facility. There are many options and sizes; the best way to find the one that suits you is to view it in person.
2. Be Patient and Flexible.
You will hit traffic and have detours, but you will also discover that detours lead to unexpected sights you may want to take in. These detours are not roadblocks but opportunities for adventure. It’s not a race. Take it slow and take it all in.
3. Map Out Your “Must-See” Stops, but Leave Room for Spontaneous Enjoyment.
Along the way, you’re sure to spot a unique shop, an unexpected view, a local restaurant, or an unusual attraction you’ll want to enjoy. Often, the journey, not the destination, is the most memorable.
4. Supplies.
Be prepared, but don’t overpack. Garbage bags, paper goods, and cleaning supplies are essential. Most items can be purchased at campsites or picked up along the way. Here’s a good list of items to pack for your RV trip.
5. Designate Jobs.
Every traveler in the family should have a job, i.e., someone who ensures that everything is strapped down and clasped closed before driving, monitors the septic, handles the trash, etc. With this method, everyone will be an expert on something within a day or two of traveling, and you’ll be smooth sailing.
6. Download Helpful Travel Apps – before you hit the road.
These can be invaluable for planning and navigating your trip. For example, the AllStays Camp & RV app is an excellent resource for locating parks, RV & camping sites, and even places to park overnight. It also provides low-clearance warnings and alternative routes. Another favorite of mine is the Roadside America App. With these tools, you can rest assured that you’re well-prepared for any situation on your journey.
7. Be Aware of Your Surroundings.
This is no different than when you’re out and about at home. Everyone should be alert and aware of their surroundings, but women traveling without a companion should be extra vigilant. While this list was created for females traveling solo, the suggestions and safety tips can also be applied to those traveling with their children.
8. Journal.
Give your child(ren) a notebook and encourage them to write about your travels. This should be presented as a fun writing prompt that becomes a collection of entries describing where you were, what you did, and what you enjoyed most. This is a great way to chronicle your trip while encouraging everyone to be present and savor the journey. My three children kept notebooks on our cross-country RV trip, and I was amazed to read about what they enjoyed most and how different each of them described the day.
9. Monitor Your Fuel.
Don’t wait until the last minute to fuel up. You may find yourself traveling in remote areas without gas stations for miles.
10. “Take Only Memories, Leave Only Footsteps,” as Chief Seattle beautifully said.
As you set out to appreciate all that our great country has to offer, remember to show respect, practice patience, and make memories, but leave only footprints behind. Keep America beautiful by taking all trash with you, and refrain from taking anything from national parks. When in doubt, refer to the Leave No Trace Seven Principles.
Happy Travels!
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Shane Svorec is a Sales and Marketing Professional who, during Covid, pursued her long-time passion for writing, published her first book, and became an award-winning author. Her work includes Broken Little Believer: Finding Purpose in All the Pretty Painful Pieces and The Busy Bridge That Got Its Break. She lives in New Jersey with her husband, three children, and rescue pets.
